Parenting In 2025: Why Confidence Is King In The UAE’s Next Generation

In a rapidly evolving world, what do UAE parents want most for their children? Not fame or riches, but something far more foundational: confidence. A recent survey conducted by the Warrior Academy reveals that 61% of parents in the UAE rank building confidence as their top priority for their children this year.

As the demands of modern life increase, this focus on inner strength comes as no surprise. But it's not just confidence topping the list—skills like focus, resilience, and self-discipline are also high on the agenda, as parents work to equip their children for a challenging future.

Why has confidence taken center stage? One clue lies in the mounting evidence about the toll technology is taking on children's mental health. Studies have found that increased screen time correlates with a rise in depression, anxiety, and attention issues in children.

In the UAE, where smart devices are ubiquitous, many parents are concerned about how excessive screen use may affect their children's ability to thrive in school, social settings, and later, the workforce.

As Sebastian Bates, founder of the Warrior Academy and author of The Not a Victim book, explains:

"Building confidence overwhelmingly came up as the top attribute parents want to develop in their children, and for good reason. Confidence fuels resilience, boosts self-esteem, and lays the foundation for overall well-being."

From Shyness to Strength

The survey also highlighted a widespread concern among parents: their children's discomfort in meeting new people or navigating unfamiliar environments. Many parents noted their children's shyness, describing them as hesitant or overwhelmed when facing new challenges.

Enter confidence-building activities. While traditional after-school programs like football and swimming remain popular, a growing number of parents are turning to more holistic approaches like character development programs offered by the Warrior Academy.

Bates, whose academy specializes in teaching children resilience and self-discipline through martial arts, believes strong character is essential for lifelong success:

"There are so many hurdles children face that can knock them down and impact their sense of self. Our programs aim to teach children how to overcome these obstacles and emerge stronger."

Standing Up to Bullies

A notable finding in the survey was the importance parents place on courage. 22% of parents specifically said they want their children to develop the tools to stand up to bullies.

Bullying remains a major concern for parents in the UAE, particularly in schools where children may encounter verbal or physical intimidation. Parents emphasized the need for their children to not only handle such situations but also to feel empowered to advocate for themselves.

This focus on courage ties directly to confidence. As one parent, Mahesh Gehani, shared:

"My son has started traveling on his own to guitar classes and meeting his friends, something he wouldn't have done before. He believes in himself now. His confidence has grown, and he's learning to stand on his own two feet."

Breaking the Screen Cycle

One of the most pressing challenges for parents today is the dominance of screens in their children's lives. A recent study by BMC Public Health found that excessive screen time exacerbates symptoms of depression, anxiety, and even aggression in children as young as nine.

To counteract this, parents are actively encouraging their children to spend more time engaging in activities that promote mental and physical well-being. From martial arts and drama classes to family bonding activities, the goal is to create well-rounded individuals who can navigate life with a healthy balance of confidence and self-discipline.

Beyond Confidence: The Softer Skills

While confidence is the top priority, the survey also revealed that parents are keen to instill other values in their children, such as empathy and emotional intelligence. In an increasingly competitive world, parents recognize the importance of raising kind, compassionate individuals who can connect with others and prioritize their own well-being.

Parents also emphasized the importance of fostering open communication with their children. By maintaining an honest and supportive dialogue, they hope to build trust and address issues like bullying or self-doubt before they escalate.

As the UAE looks to the future, the emphasis on confidence and resilience in the next generation reflects a broader societal shift. In a world where challenges are inevitable, these qualities are seen as the key to thriving—not just surviving.

The Warrior Academy is at the forefront of this movement, offering what Bates describes as the Middle East's first specialized Character Development Centre. Through martial arts and character-building programs, the academy is empowering children to take on life's challenges with courage, focus, and discipline.

As one parent summed it up:
"We're seeing big changes. My son is becoming stronger, more focused, and self-confident. He's spending less time on screens and more time engaging with the world around him."

For parents across the UAE, the mission for 2025 is clear: build a generation of confident, resilient, and empathetic individuals who are ready to take on the future. While the challenges are many—screen time, social pressures, and bullying—the solutions are within reach.

With programs like those offered by the Warrior Academy, and a growing emphasis on mental and emotional well-being, the UAE's children are poised to grow into empowered adults, capable of leading with confidence and compassion.

And as parents take the lead in shaping this brighter future, one thing is certain: confidence isn't just a priority—it's a legacy.